Speaking so people can understand

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Knowing something is not the same as explaining it

I have had moments during computer training when I was explaining something that seemed simple to me, but the person in front of me was clearly lost. I remember looking at the screen, then at the learner, and realizing that repeating the same explanation would probably change nothing. I had to find another way to say it.

This happens quite often with Excel. I can give the correct name of a function, explain what it does, and demonstrate the formula step by step. Technically, everything I said may be correct. But if the learner cannot do the same task alone afterward, I have to question whether I really communicated it well.

Teaching in Brazzaville has made me pay more attention to that difference. Sometimes I stop using technical vocabulary and start with a situation the person already understands. Other times, I move to the learner’s computer and let them try it themselves. I have seen a simple example solve in two minutes what a long explanation could not solve in ten.

The language depends on the person

Doctrine and Covenants 1:24 speaks about God communicating with people according to their language so they can understand. The part that stayed with me was the idea of being understood. I see a practical connection with the way I communicate in my own work.

When I train someone who is opening Excel or Photoshop for the first time, I cannot speak as if I were talking to another trainer. The beginner does not need every technical term I know. In fact, giving too much information at once can make a simple task feel more complicated.

I experience this from the other side too. French is my first language, but I study Communication in English. Sometimes the idea is already clear in my mind, yet I hesitate when I try to express it naturally in English. I write a sentence, read it again, and realize that it sounds more like translated French than something I would actually say.

That experience has made me a little more patient when someone does not understand me immediately.

Did my message actually arrive?

When I prepare a training session now, I still think about what I want to teach, but I also try to think about what the learner will receive. Those are not always the same thing.

Whether I am teaching in a classroom, recording a tutorial, writing an email, or preparing something for my website, another person is on the other side of the message. If that person cannot understand what I meant, having the correct information was not enough.

It is the one that makes the person look back at the screen and say, “Okay, now I understand.”

Sometimes the best explanation is not the most technical one.

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Alliance PEMOSSO

Alliance PEMOSSO

Alliance is a communication consultant, trainer, and NLP coach based in Brazzaville, and the Managing Director of Melbo Studio. He writes here about communication, design, and what he is learning in COMM 310 at Ensign College.


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